Your most authentic
self is waiting for you
Become the woman you were before you started abandoning yourself for love, approval, and peace
Most women I work with are brilliant, self-aware, high-achieving, and tired of…
Performing. People pleasing. Shrinking herself to keep the peace. Being the strong or the more put together one. Losing themselves in relationships. Pretending they’re okay while falling apart inside. Over-caring for people and circumstances they do not want to care about. Over-empathizing with people they just want to say ‘shut-up’ too and mean it. Putting themselves last when everything and everyone gets to come first. Feeling stuck and exhausted trying to be perfect.
If this is you, here’s the thing… maybe you’ve built an incredible life on paper, but you’re still feeling disconnected from your body, your truth, or your needs and struggling in your relationships OR maybe you’ve mastered taking care of everyone else, but don’t know how to take care of yourself without guilt or abandoning you.
If any of this feels like you, then you’re in the right place because I teach women who’ve ever loved or lost themselves in love, how to do relationships with their bodies, themselves, and with others without abandoning who they are.
How We Do Relationships
Most people think “relationship work” is just about communication scripts or learning how to argue better and I say it is much broader than that.
We look at how you do relationships in three core places: your body, your self, and your connections with others. When these three are out of sync, you end up over-functioning, people-pleasing, fawning, or shutting down. When they’re aligned, you feel like yourself again — in every room you walk into.
OUR RELATIONSHIP PILLARS
Relationship With Self
This is where we untangle all the ways you’ve abandoned yourself to stay loved, respected, or “easy to be around.”
Here we look at:
the stories you tell yourself about who you have to be
your patterns: over-giving, perfectionism, hyper-independence, fawning
your core needs, boundaries, and values
your inner voices — the critic, the caretaker, the performer, the protector
your identity — who you are beyond your roles and your trauma
your erotic intelligence: sexual communication, sensations, turn-on, safety, desires, and embodied intimacy
We rebuild self-trust.
You learn how to hear yourself, believe yourself, and act in integrity with what you know, instead of gaslighting your own feelings to keep other people comfortable.
Relationship With The Body
Your body is the first relationship you ever had.
It is also the one most women learned to override, ignore, or fight with.
Here we look at:
your nervous system: how your body holds stress, fear, love, and emotional residue
your symptoms: burnout, anxiety, numbness, gut issues, inflammation, pain
your care: nutrition, movement, sleep, womb restoration, herbs, broths, teas, and rhythmic living
your nourishment: Rhythmic Eating™ + using my Wellness Plate and Nervous System Food Matrix™, and eating in a way that supports energy, clarity, and emotional regulation
your ecosystems: digestion, elimination, hormones, chronic fatigue patterns, and the body’s natural cycles
your pleasure and aliveness: where your body says yes, where it tightens, where it opens, where it collapses
My training as a naturopathic practitioner and clinical herbalist helps me to teach you how to care for your body holistically.
Relationship With Others
Once your body and self are back in the conversation, we bring that truth into your relationships.
Here, we work with:
how you communicate (or avoid communicating)
how you choose partners, friends, and communities
how you show up in conflict, repair, closeness, and commitment
the ways you over-function, parent, fix, or manage others
setting boundaries that stick — without burning everything down
receiving support, care, and love without hustling for it
We practice doing relationships differently — staying connected to yourself while staying connected to others, instead of sacrificing one for the other.
What I Do
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I partner with wellness apps, relationship platforms, community-based organizations, and women-centered brands to deliver:
relationship education
emotional wellness curriculum
community trainings
workshops & masterclasses
expert content & live sessions
communication and conflict trainings
embodiment + nervous system-based frameworks
If your team supports humans in relationships, communication, intimacy, identity, or emotional well-being — I help strengthen your community from the inside out.
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For the woman who’s ready to stop shrinking, stop over-functioning, stop outsourcing her emotions, and start living the truth she’s been afraid to speak.
For couples who want deeper intimacy, clearer communication, and a safer way to love each other without losing themselves.
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For the self-guided learner, the late-night Googler, the woman in reinvention, or the person hungry to understand themselves:
I create classes, guides, workshops, ebooks, and soon, full courses — on boundaries, communication, emotional courage, relationship skills, embodiment, food and body wisdom, and self-trust
Hi, I’m Evanye Lawson, LPC, Ph.D.
I AM A LICENSED PSYCHOTHERAPIST
AND RELATIONSHIP + WELL-BEING EXPERT
For over a decade, I have helped women, couples, and communities heal the way they show up in love and in life.
My work blends somatic therapy, practical psychology, and nervous-system education to make emotional and relationship wellness simple, real, and doable. I help people understand why they over-give, shut down, people-please, stay silent, lose themselves in relationships, or carry everyone else’s emotions on their backs and I teach them how to break those patterns even with guilt or fear.
I turn complicated relationship dynamics into clear, grounded, everyday tools you can actually use. Whether I am working with women and couples or consulting for digital wellness platforms, relationship-based apps, and community-centered organizations, my focus is the same: helping people create emotionally healthy relationships without abandoning themselves so that they can be their most authentic selves in EVERY area of life.
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